Friday, 21 December 2018

No one is coming to save you

We are who we choose to be. Look around you... you have chosen the life you have right now. No one gave it to you, no one made you do it. You chose it. And what you don't realise is if you want saving you need to sort that shit out. No one is going to come and rescue you- we don't live in a fairytale. No this is your life and if you are unhappy right now it's up to you to change it. I hear too much of girls waiting for guys to 'save them', financially, mentally and they are waiting to be loved. Well let me tell you this now. That might never happen. If you continue to wait for someone to give you something it won't come. Nothing will happen. You have got to go and get it yourself.

When parents  say" oooo yes find someone with lots of money, maybe a footballer" HOLD ON!!!! Why can't I be the one with lots of money??? Why do we as women have to depend on guys?? Ermmm noooo.... if it's money you want babe go and get it yourself don't wait for someone to bring it to you.
Love??? Don't we all want that happy ending??
We all want to find someone that we can start a family with and have a gorgeous house( well most of us) But the only thing you are craving right there is the feeling of being wanted, being love, feeling precious. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but a lot of the time that gets crushed, everyone always ends up leaving at some point. Do you know what you need to do??? Love yourself. You are the only person that you will be with forever. If you don't give yourself enough love how can you possibly be happy?
Don't wait to be saved. If you want to change something in your life then do it, and do it for you not anyone else. Stop giving excuses. “Excuses forms reasons or explanations for many to attempt to justify their behavior and ignore their wrongful action.” Why won't thousands of unhappy and unfulfilled people stop making excuses and take responsibility for their life? There are many reasons why people make excuses, but the primary one is they refuse to accept full responsibility when it comes to their professional or personal life. Accept responsibility , this if your life and it's in your hands. Oprah Winfrey said " The greatest lesson of life is that you are responsible for your life" he most important aspect of taking responsibility for your life is to acknowledge that your life is your responsibility. No one can live your life for you. You are in charge. No matter how hard you try to blame others for the events of your life, each event is the result of choices you made and are making. Every action you take affects organizational progress in one way or in another. You always make a difference. Let that difference move the world forward. You matter. And, your thoughts matter, too.

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