Monday, 18 December 2017

17 Things I have learnt in 2017

Looking back on this year  I can actually say I have achieved a lot and I've learnt so much about myself and realised who really matters to me. I thought it was a good time to reflect on a few things I have learnt this year.

  1. I've learnt to be happy within myself.
    I have always been a confident person and I thought I was quite happy with myself, however  this year I've just accepted myself much more. Since being at stage school I've learnt a remarkable amount about myself , how to deal with certain situations and how to cope at stressful times but  more important I now know that no one can be me like I ca
  2. Don't hold on to people.
    I'm the sort of person that doesn't have a massive group of friends, just a small amount. So to me it's more important to have a few close friends rather than 30 people that don't even know your favourite colour, that's why friends are so important to me. However if someone doesn't make any effort with me or care I've learnt to just let them go because we all deserve better than that.                                                                                               
  3. Compliment People.                                                                                                                                                            
  4. People will try to put you down and stop you.
    Unfortunately this is the way life is and it is actually really sad because as women, we should stick together and help lift each other. But you just have to look beyond it and keep sparkling.                                                                                                                                                    
  5. Not everyone around you will support you all the time.                                                                                    
  6. There are no mistakes, only lessons we need to master.                                                                             
  7. Self Confidence is a super power.
    Once you start to believe in yourself.                                                                                                                                          
  8.  Love yourself.                                                                                                                                                                     
  9. Be yourself no matter what anyone says.                                                                                                                                                                                  
  10. Forgiveness.
    There is nothing more classy or powerful than showing forgiveness and grace to someone who doesn't deserve it. Forgiveness makes you stronger, only the weak can't forgive.                                                                                                                                                       
  11. There is no wrong way to be yourself.                                                                                                                                                                                                     
  12. Real queens fix each others crowns.                                                                                                                                                                                            
  13. Life isn't what your given it's what you create.
     I know what I want and I will always aim to achieve it no matter what anyone thinks.                                                                                                                                                    
  14. Kate Spade taught me that life is short buy the shoes                                                                                                                                                                  
  15. Accept Help                                                                                                                                                                                                                                
  16. Meditation isn't to control your thoughts , it's to stop letting them control you.                                                                                                                                                         
  17. Be kind to unkind people, they need it the most. 
    Life has taught me that you can't control someone's loyalty no matter how good you are to them, doesn't mean they'll treat you the same. What is important is that you don't let anyone drain you of  your happiness. Whoever is trying to bring you down, is already below you and you just have to kill them with kindness.

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